Man Up: Reimagining Modern Manhood

Inspired by the award-winning poet and actor’s acclaimed one-man play, a powerful coming-of-age memoir that reimagines masculinity for the twenty-first-century male. 

Award-winning poet, actor, and writer Carlos Andrés Gómez is a supremely gifted storyteller with a captivating voice whose power resonates equally on the live stage and on the page. In one of his most powerful spoken-word poems, Gómez recounts a confrontation he once had after accidentally bumping into another man at a nightclub. Just as they were about to fight, Gómez’s eyes inexplicably welled up with tears. Everyone at the scene jumped back, as if showing vulnerability was the craziest thing that Gómez could possibly have done.

Like many men in our society, Gómez grew up believing that he should be ready to fight at all times, treat women as objects, and close off his emotional self. It wasn’t until he discovered acting that he began to realize the true cost of squelching one’s emotions—and how aggression dominates everything that young males are taught.

Plummeting graduation and employment rates and dire teen suicide statistics show that young males in our society are at a crisis point. Gómez seeks to reverse these alarming trends by sharing lessons about life, love, and vulnerability. Man Up galvanizes men—but also mothers, girlfriends, wives, and sisters—to rethink the way all men interact with women, deal with violence, handle fear, and express emotion.

Gómez urges men of all ages to break society’s rules of male conformity and reconsider not just what it means to be a man, but what it means to be a good man.

“Man Up” is available now through AmazonBarnes & NobleBooks A MillionIndiebound, Penguin and iTunes!

 

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“Ending Violence Against Women Begins at the Bus Stop” (via The Huffington Post)

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“…each of us can be revolutionary agents of the gender equality we need in the world. Men need to equate “manliness” with bravery, accountability, respect and empathy. Will we always succeed? No. Will we need to read and respect the work of women who have been doing this for millennia? Yes. Will it benefit everyone on this planet, for generations to come? Absolutely.”

“Ending Violence Against Women Begins at the Bus Stop” by Mallika Dutt & Carlos Andrés Gómez via The Huffington Post:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/mallika-dutt/ending-violence-against-w_2_b_5845862.html

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Interview on ABC’s “Real Biz with Rebecca Jarvis”

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If you missed me and Courtney Martin discussing the shifting roles of men and women earlier today, you can watch it HERE

 

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Woke up this morning to see “Man Up” included in this list of Top Latino Memoirs.

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Woke up this morning to see “Man Up” included in this list of Top Latino Memoirs.

So honored to see something I wrote alongside Rita Moreno, Esmeralda Santiago, and Piri Thomas. http://www.latinabookclub.com/2014/09/memoir-week-top-14-latino-memoirs.html?m=1

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Honored to be a UN Women #HeForShe Advocate.

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Honored to be a UN Women #HeForShe Advocate.

http://beijing20.unwomen.org/en/

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#JusticeForMikeBrown

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“There are reasons why white gun’s rights activists can walk into a Chipotle restaurant with assault rifles and be seen as gauche nuisances while unarmed black men are killed for reaching for their wallets or cell phones, or carrying children’s toys.”

Read Greg Howard’s powerful, important piece HERE

I just signed a petition demanding that a special prosecutor be appointed to investigate the killing of Michael Brown.  Click HERE to do the same.

 

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